The horrific events of Sept. 11, 2001, devastated millions of
Americans as they watched them unfold live on television. That day,
one Colorado family lost a part of themselves.
Everyone remembers where they were when they heard the
terrifying news nine years ago. Ellen Sleevi had just dropped her
three children off at school and returned home when she got the
call. It was her older brother, and he asked if she had seen the
news. She turned on the television set to see the North Tower of
the World Trade Center in flames. Her first thought was her little
brother, Chris Faughnan, a bond broker for Cantor Fitzgerald who
worked on the 103rd floor. The American Airlines jetliner had
struck between the 93rd and 99th floors.
The images were too much. In a complete state of shock, Sleevi
went into the shower and wept. Then, out of nowhere, she heard a
voice: “We have to take him now.”
Sleevi broke down and pleaded for her little brother. When she
came out of the bathroom, she saw that the North Tower had just
collapsed.
Faughnan, a 38-year-old father of three, was among the 2,752
people killed in the attacks on both of New York City’s trade
center buildings. Now his family is carrying on his legacy, which
is one of compassion, positivity and love.
Faughnan, a graduate of Arvada High School and the University of
Colorado-Boulder, was one of eight children. His wife, Cathy, who
now lives in Lafayette, Colo., created a scholarship foundation
that awards money to the Arvada High School senior who shows the
potential to have the most positive impact on the world.
Sleevi, a Parker resident and owner of Heidi’s Brooklyn Deli
across from Park Meadows mall, is donating all of her proceeds from
sales on Sept. 11 to the Christopher Faughnan Scholarship
Foundation.
Sleevi remembers her younger brother as a quiet guy, a
“brainiac” who always wanted to be the athlete. A strong-willed
man, he “would always stand up for what was right,” Sleevi
said.
“We always said Chris encompassed the best of all of us
[siblings],” she said.
It took her two years to come to terms with the fact that he was
gone, even though the family immediately left Sept. 11 and drove to
New York, their home state, and stood next to the rubble of the
towers. Police officers who were standing at checkpoints did not
need to verify their identities. They just knew, and some of them
held Faughnan’s family as they cried.
Witnessing the aftermath was difficult, particularly for the
eldest son on the family, Tom, who was charged with removing bodies
from the remains of the buildings.
“It was like a war scene,” Sleevi said. “Everything was still
smoldering.”
Only one thing is known of Faughnan’s final minutes: he made one
last phone call to his 5-year-old daughter, Juliet. The next day,
as family members held each other and shared memories of Faughnan,
his 3-year-old daughter sat next to her mom and said, “Dad isn’t
coming home, is he?“
But Sleevi knows he is still with the family, watching over
everyone as he always did. Every year, on his Oct. 31 birthday,
they release balloons into the sky with birthday cards and messages
of love.
His family also rides every year in the CU Buffalo Classic bike
ride in Faughnan’s honor. It is one of the many things the family
does to cope with their loss. Even nine years later, the wounds
still seem fresh.
Faughnan’s oldest daughter, Siena, wrote a poem years later that
captured her raw feelings. It starts, “Whoever says that time heals
the wounds that death makes?“
In the days and weeks following Sept. 11, Sleevi was overcome
with grief, but also overwhelmed by the outpouring of support from
friends, family members and people across the country.
“If I wanted the message of 9-11 to be anything, it would be
that love is so much more powerful than hate,” she said.
That is why the family continues to live their lives in honor of
Faughnan. The scholarship foundation is an extension of him and
empowers young people to make a profound impact on society in his
name.
“He was always trying to make the world a better place and we’re
trying to fill those gaps,” Sleevi said.
Heidi’s Brooklyn Deli, 8283 S. Akron St., is open from 11 a.m.
to 7 p.m. Sept. 11, and all proceeds from that day will benefit the
Christopher Faughnan Scholarship Foundation.